Bonnes questions
Questions, answered.
The essentials for everyone. The specifics — dates, places, plans — live behind your invitation.
When and where is the wedding?
France, 2027 — that's all we share publicly. Invited guests will find the exact dates, the venue, and the full weekend plan behind their personal invitation link.
How do I RSVP?
Through your personal invitation link — it opens your household's own pages, where the RSVP takes about two minutes on your phone. Lost it? We'll re-send it by email.
Can I bring a plus one?
Your invitation lists everyone in your party. If your personal pages show a plus one, they're warmly invited — if you're unsure, just ask us.
Will travel and lodging information be provided?
Yes — invited guests get a full travel guide (flights, trains, transfers) and lodging details inside their personal pages, plus help figuring out the details.
Is there a dress code?
The full dress notes live with the schedule in the guest pages. Short version: dress to celebrate — we'll make sure you know exactly what that means well in advance.
Are children invited?
We love your little ones — invitations name everyone included. If your children are listed on your personal pages, they're invited.
Is there a registry?
Your presence is the present. If you'd like to give something anyway, we'll share registry details closer to the wedding.
How do I reach you with a question?
Email wedding@beccaandshawn.com — it reaches us both. Invited guests can also write through the contact page inside their personal pages.
Something we didn’t cover?
Write to us — we read everything and answer quickly.
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